Alongside the screeching parrot

Zohar says it so well: I am the only person in the world, fuck everyone else.
But we see that it is only our opinions of ourselves that really matter and we still allow others to influence us emotionally? "Don't get angry with yourself, I'll heal you"(Bjork). Yet it is not Bjork that does the healing but the "I", the "I am the only person who can bring myself down", in this case the "I am the only one in the world" and "I respect myself, love myself, believe in myself". It is only me myself, and I myself will make this relationship work, I myself will convert the pangs of sorrow into tears of laughter, if I myself only WILL IT, I myself can do anything:

All I search for in you is the source of this will
So I can rejuvinate it, bring it back from the grave,
so that it can live for me, its savior, and not him,
its murderer. We live, and how can we live without
this will, if we cannot live without the relationship,
how can we make anything work, give ourselves the chance
to be happy, the opportunity, if we cannot will it?
Will it, and I will will it, will will to stay.
Do not and know that you will always have struggle and pain
for that is what you are willing, willing not to live.

Come with me, be with me, each other's guides through life's sweet rides
will joy and bliss and reconciliation, will life, and with elation
we will conquer pain and hardship and toil, so that the fruits of such labor will never spoil, we'll have tears, I know, but let them be of laughter and never sorrow.

All you have to do is let them, allow them, for I will it, and them together, us together, will grow, to be, what you never after thought was possible: I can't say perfection, but I can say, divine...